May 2013
2 posts
The Leso U-Haul
Do you ever get nervous that you have fallen into the Lesbian U-Haul?
And That the world was right.
That it is not actually a fabulously,
Wonderfully romantic idea,
To pack up your life,
After only a few months
And join your life with another,
Like conjoined twins attached at the skull?
April 2013
4 posts
Meeting The Parents
Met my new ladies family this week. I thought I was going to vomit but I survived.
They were absolutely incredible. Super arty and friendly. Her dad a Scientist, her mum a visual artist.
The whole house was red and littered with art, sculptures and treats from around the world.
The first thing her dad asked me was about my love for Unicorns and if it was a symbol for lesbians. What a lovely individual.
<3 gay friendly, supportive families. They make my heart warm.
THE MOST CAKE
If you have not checked out this blog, you need to get on it!
So amazing, hilarious and scarily accurate.
Lesbians 4LYF.
I think I have fully evolved into a raging lesbian.
I can’t imagine ever going back to men.
I am very happy about this outcome.
Girls are awesome.
Haven't been back to Sydney in over 8 years and I'm heading back in Sydney... what's the lesbian nightlife like at the moment? What can you recommend for a good night? I can't remember a thing anymore!!!! Any ideas? X
Yeah def!
I will make you a pretty list:
- Unicorns - clearly no.1 since it is my event. Think burlesque, body painting, strobe lights, warehouse, lots of babes.
http://www.facebook.com/events/245156855620895/
- GiRLTHING - long standing montly night. Indie chick crowd, on the younger side but shiz loads of fun times.
http://www.facebook.com/GiRLTHINGPARTY?fref=ts
- Birdcage - Weekly Wednesday night at Zanzibar in Newtown. Same crowd as GiRLTHING. Run by the same babes. Super cheap drinks!
http://www.facebook.com/birdcageparty?fref=ts
- Snapback - Weekly Wednesday Hip Hop night at the Newtown Hotel. Hip hop lady crowd, good to have a beer at before Birdcage.
http://www.facebook.com/snapbacknewtown?fref=ts
- Chicks With Picks - Sunday arfternoon beers and live lady performers. Lots of chicks with guitars. Very chilled fun times. Just $5.
http://www.facebook.com/chickswithpicks?fref=ts
Ohh and if you ever feel like making your way to the Nation’s Capitol, this night kicks ass.
Lady Bones - http://www.facebook.com/ladybonesinc?fref=ts
Any more q’s just hit me up! Talking about girl nights is my favourite topic of conversation :)
xx
January 2013
4 posts
Fair Day Sydney 2013 is coming up!
http://www.mardigras.org.au/events/fair-day/
I am presenting a UNICORN stage filled with sweet DJ’s who will be playing lovely beats to get your queer ass’s shaking!
2:00 - 3:30pm - YOUTH STAGE - 10th Feb
“
’Our journey is not complete until our gay brothers and sisters are treated like anyone else under the law – for if we are truly created equal, then surely the love we commit to one another must be equal as well.’
- Barack Obama, Presidential Inauguration 2013.
” —Stonewall Facebook Page (via youyouandjames)Guess who has made it into the finals for Bachelorette of The Year!?
It is down to the top 5 and I am one of them!
The LOTL (Lesbians on the Loose) magazine runs a competition every year where single lesbians compete for the title. The competition is based on the ladies merits and their contribution to the queer community.
The top 5 are then selected, then it is up to the public to vote for their favourite.
If you feel like sharing the love, you can vote here ->
http://www.lotl.com/Web-Articles-2013/Meet-our-BOY-finalists/
Just fill in your details and select ADELE :)
Thanks in advance lovelies.
xxx
December 2012
9 posts
Hey, I'm coming to sydney on NYE its my first time out of perth ever, Im coming by my self and will be staying in kingscross, what do you recommend a gay girl does ? I want to meet some new people and pretty girls and have a really good time :)
Hey!
Thanks for the message!
I would highly recommend heading to the Day Party at the Newtown Hotel on NYD. LadyHawke is playing for free! Plus the Djs from GiRLTHING who run the biggest girl nights in Sydney.
You can check it out here:
http://www.facebook.com/newtownhotel?fref=ts
The Newtown Hotel is on King St in Newtown which is super easy to get to from the cross. Take the trains as the roads will be hectic!
Let me know if how you go! Hope you meet some babes xx
Wow - Androgynous Heaven →
the-unfeminine-female.tumblr.com
Wow - this blog is a bit like heaven.
Androgynous women all over the shop.
If there was a heaven, it would be made up of gender queer women who were all single and really dug over the top femme girls.
Please be a heaven.
WHEN YOUR PARENTS TELL YOU ABOUT SOMEONE GETTING MARRIED
Stolen from: http://themostcake.co.uk/
When your parents are like “oh Mark from your old school is getting married next October and his fiance’s going to buy a wedding dress with his mother tomorrow and they’re really lucky to get an appointment at the bridal store at such short notice. Aren’t any of your friends getting married?”
What I’m like outside:
Hmm? Why no, they’re not actually. But how interesting, thank you for imparting that piece of information to me.
What I’m like inside:
MY FRIENDS DON’T GET MARRIED BECAUSE THEY’RE ALL QUEERS AND THEY CAN’T LEGALLY GET MARRIED ANYWAY AND I KNOW YOU’RE NOT COUNTING CIVIL PARTNERSHIPS IN THIS. AND EVEN IF THEY COULD THEY WOULDN’T GO TO FUCKING BRIDAL STORES 11 MONTHS IN ADVANCE. And the ones that are straight don’t have any more hope of getting married either because that just seems to be what they’re like.
I’m also like this:
Bisexuality - and what it feels like. →
themostcake.co.uk
This is so on point!
Some days I feel 90% gay, sometimes only about 30%.
This year I marched for gay rights, came out to my parents and spent a good amount of time defending my relationship with a girl, whilst being plagued with insults and dirty looks from on lookers.
Now that I am single and away from my lesbian circle, I am seeing guys in a new light. I am still attracted to them. And a lot of the time, I think they are more attracted to me then women are.
But where to now? I have already told my parents I am gay, they have come to terms with it. I have nominated myself for Lesbian of The Year!
I have always wanted a label to identify my sexuality but the older I get, the more my line between being straight or gay is being blurred.
I wish bisexuality wasn’t always identified as such a dirty word. I would like all the connotations associated with pansexuality and bisexuality to disperse, to evaporate into the air.
30 Day LGBTQ Challenger Day 1 - Your sexual orientation or gender identity. Be creative in your definition.
After a lot of consideration I would say I am pansexual.
Sometimes it easier to just say I am gay or queer if I can’t be bothered explaining pansexual or seeing peoples eyes roll.
I am attracted to predominately androgynous females or males, trans men and gender queer folk.
x
My Mum
My mum on the whole is super fantastic about her daughter being a queer.
But some of her view points really irritate me.
- She believes bisexuals are gay people in denial
- She believes homosexuality is often a result of sexual abuse
- That I should hide my sexuality as my life is hard enough already
- That it is unnatural for me to be gay as I am so feminine
- That my sexuality embarasses her therefore she would prefer if her family and friends did not know.
Pansexual
It is hard explaining to people that you are pansexual. It is often easier to just say you are gay.
This Week
This week I packed up my whole life, quit my job, gave away my possssions and moved back home to Canberra.
I now have:
- No job
- No own place
- No commitments
- No income
- No possessions
I feel totally free.
November 2012
14 posts
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Rob Delaney: On Depression & Getting Help →
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This was originally posted February 26, 2010.
I deal with suicidal, unipolar depression and I take medication daily to treat it. Over the past seven years, I’ve had two episodes that were severe and during which I thought almost exclusively of suicide. I did not eat much and lost weight during…
re: your breakup situation, i'd say it's important to get space after a breakup. I'm going through that right now, actually, and I still want to shag the living daylights out of her, even though she cheated on me. Human minds are screwy that way. So I vote, get space and then slowly try being friends if and only if it feels right.
Agreed. I think space is the only way to get rid of that wanting to shag their brains out feeling.
Thankfully I think the feeling has disappeared. I have found finding someone else to distract you helps also.
Hello New Queer-o Event in Newtown! →
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I have put together a new night in Newtown to add some leso goodness to your Sat night!
Think titties, bums, body paint and lots of babes dancing round to sweet beats.
Opening night is this Weds.
Come get heaps queer - Wolves & Lace - Every Wednesday xx
Yes I'm there every Wednesday but this Wednesday off to Newtown hotel then Zanzibar, will you be in the area?
I am looking after the new night on Weds at the Newtown Hotel, Wolves + Lace so I will def be there! :)
Yeah? And sorry accidentally said it on anon haha
ahhh hello. Yeah I was there for my bday.
Were you there too?
Zanzibar?
Last Wednesday?
October 2012
16 posts
Friends With Ex's
I wonder if this is actually possible…
Do you think you can still hang with an ex and not want to shag their brains out?
How do you turn off that switch that makes you want to lick their stomach and touch their bum..?
I think I can do it and I would really like to be able to do the whole friend thing. But I am not sure whether I would revert back to old behviours straight away.
How do you be friends with someone whom you weren’t friends with prior to being together.
If that is all you have known with that person, is it easy to act differently…
I can’t decide if it is too difficult and not achieveable. Whether it is healthy to be friends or logistically impossible…
“When the first lesbian opened her eyes on the first morning of the dawn of the world, she put on a plaid shirt and walked to the first co-op, where the cute cashier promptly hit on her. They were fruitful and multiplied, and that’s where baby dykes come from.”
—Effing Dykes: Forever Back To School (via harlequin-hurricanes)
Sydney Lesbians
Someone needs to make a Sydney Lesbians page to rival Melbourne Lesbians…
Had a dream I was trying to get onto Big Brother Australia as the token lesbian.
Nearly every season seems to have a token gay male.
Let’s have a lady loving lesbian!
Can someone please audition for the show and represent :)
I think my lesbian heartache hurts a little bit more then my previous straight girl heartache…
Advice For The Recently Single
Alone time or rebound lover?
“I am a sincere believer that people come into our lives for a reason. Sometimes, it’s because we need a shoulder. Sometimes, it’s because we need someone who understands us. Sometimes, it’s simply to feel: to be angry, to be in love, to be inspired. Throughout our lives we want different things, we need different things. I’m often amazed at how people enter our lives accordingly. This also applies to those we have been a relationship with. When you are in a relationship with someone, you share yourself. You open up and give them a little piece of you. They were meant to have that piece, as you were meant to accept a piece of them. A lot of times, problems arise and two people don’t end up working out. A lot of times, the two don’t communicate anymore. I believe that when we end a relationship with someone, we can never be as close to them as we were before. Part of you is broken. Part of them is broken. And that’s okay, because they were there for the parts of your life that they needed to be. Sometimes we get lucky enough to find a friendship in someone that we’ve loved but that’s rare. When hearts feel so strongly and so deeply, it’s hard to say, “Dear heart, change now. Feel less.” In the end, that little piece that you gave to them was never returned, it’s kept safe, just like you keep the piece they gave you safe. And you don’t need to call each other everyday or talk like your best friends. Because when we lose someone, there is always a part of them that we’ll get to keep. Love never leaves. Nor does it die. Love has an appropriate time & place.
And sometimes love needs to be tucked away, and simply remembered.” —
And sometimes love needs to be tucked away, and simply remembered.” —
Jenna Anne 9/28/10 (via jennaanne01)
I like this, I think this is nice x
Well, I hope you feel better, that's still a rotten thing to go through.
thanks lovely!
That sucks, are you going to be alright?
Yeah, I should be fine. Last week I was pretty sad but this week I feel a lot better.
It was pretty obvious it wasn’t working out. Sometimes people are just too different.
She is a lovely babe though so I think after a while we could be friends. x
Things I learnt from my last relationship
- Being a sooky whiner is not a desirable characteristic
- Being too sensitive pisses people off
- Don’t take people to shiz loads of events they wont particularly enjoy
- Don’t ask them to have your babies after a few weeks
- Don’t try and plan your future with them/their future/your children’s names together
If you ever need someone tot alk to about strap ons. I'm all ears :D It's a topic I enjoy discussing. I just have no one to listen T_T
I love a good chat about strap ons!
Do you like to recieve/give or do you like switching?
Have any favourite places to purchase?
I just became single.
I don’t recommend having a break up conversation whilst waiting for a delayed flight…
x
